It’s a difficult conundrum because looking at it objectively you can see why daycare centers wouldn’t want kids who were very disruptive or even harmful to other children.

https://www.ada.gov/resources/child-care-center....

I hope it works out for you and your child.

Commonly Asked Questions about Child Care Centers and the Americans with Disabilities Act

https://www.ada.gov/resources/child-care-centers/

I had a horrible time with daycares when my son was younger. When we moved from. Tennessee to Texas, I was told we would need to provide an aide to accompany him to daycare. You can you report a daycare for discrimination under the Americans with Disabilities act. But daycares have much more leeway than schools and do not have to obligate themselves for extra expense or to continue to work with kids who may be hitting, kicking, biting. I would like to see more accommodating daycare programs. Here is the info I found
.https://www.navigatelifetexas.org/en/family-sup...

Day Care / Child Care for Children with Disabilities | Navigate Life Texas

https://www.navigatelifetexas.org/en/family-support/day-care-for-children-with-disabilities