My son avoids conflict. He only hits himself if he's stressed out & overwhelmed. He's never had any angry outbursts or anything like that. I try to keep a very positive, calm & relaxing environment for him at home. I don't take him out to public places (except he attends school) because he has an extremely difficult time. I am teaching him how to order what he needs through shopping apps for delivery. I am still learning about Autism & my son so that I can know how to help him, teach him, prepare him for living independently & parenting him. I talk to him about what I can do better & how to help him. He's been responding positively to that approach. I think that's helpful for him to not have to be in a position to be frustrated or angry.