Garry is correct. I am 69 y.o.; my son with autism is 29 y.o., lives 50/50 with me and with his mom (divorced, separate homes.). I've been through a lot and I'm not done yet.
Sam, please search further for a support group. When my son was diagnosed at age 3, I was lost. I was fortunate to become involved with a couple support groups. I was often the only father present, yet I was welcomed like I was just another "Mom". I got so much more info from other parents than I did by talking to random experts.

I know Evanston, IL, is a long ways off from you. But maybe you can reach out (phone; txt; online) to the autism community there.

I mention Evanston because I and some other parent/friends flew there from Philly, PA, to visit a model program there where the 'kids' were young adults who needed GOOD housing options. Of course, they are at a very different point than you in this journey. Still, Evanston is one of MANY communities all over, that have become real havens for autism families. The older parents have so much to share with younger parents. And anywhere (real world or virtual places) there are autism families, there are parents of all ages and in various situations.

My last two cents worth: make sure you take care of yourself, as well as your daughter. The better your wellbeing, the more she will benefit from you. I know what it's like to be totally absorbed in my son and his needs. Yet I have learned not to feel guilty if I set aside a little time for myself. BTW, fight for support services to help your daughter and you - including respite services.

Raising an Autistic child on your own can be tough. I have raised mine for almost 18 years now. The best way to make it easier is learn about your child & how Autism affects them. I include my son in my parenting & he helps me a lot with understanding what his needs are. Been a huge relief since I started including his input. I was extremely frustrated & stressed & worried about him. If you have the ability to communicate with your child they can help you a lot with how to meet their needs.

We are hear to listen. It can be challenging, some days better than others. I have contemplated going back to therapy just to help with my mental well being. My anxiety has been really bad due to challenging behaviors with my son. He is 11 years old.

Hi,
You are not the only one! My non verbal son is driving me nuts all hours of the day. He has all the help available under the sun, yet I am still very frustrated with him on a daily basis. The weekend days have returned to being harder the week workdays, once again. Despite the hundreds of hours I pour into trying to keep my house in order, my sons destructive habits render it useless. Try to find time to take care of yourself when you can, I get up at 4 most days to try to do this. Really hope your situation improves!

@A MyAutismTeam Member, it's also good for 'Venting', when you need to release those thoughts and clean one's brain of the events that are currently distressing you, then you can get another look at the problem with a fresh mind.
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