Hi, Im going through the same thing with my son, he is 7 diagnosed autistic at age three. His father and I have no custody order but for like three months I didnt get to see my son because his father witheld him from me, (he also doesnt get that our son needs therapy, but i try to get therapy for him and get told i have to have custody orders first! it is heartbreking.I hope your able to gain more time with your little girl, it sounds like she needs you

I'm looking into therapy that can be done while my kid is in my custody so that change can start occurring. For the betterment of her. She's bright, but is struggling and hoping ABA or other interventions can help.

I think every little bit helps. Invest in them when they're with you and maybe there will be enough of a change in time to make the other parent go "hold up - what are you doing? I'm seeing good things."