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My Son Is In 12th Grade And His IEP Is Coming Up In 2 Wks. I Am Afraid They Will Try To Graduate Him. What Can I Do? Suggested Goals/ideas?

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Evanston, IL
December 23, 2011
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Members rallied around a parent worried about their son being pressured to graduate despite needing more time, with the overwhelming consensus... Read more

Members rallied around a parent worried about their son being pressured to graduate despite needing more time, with the overwhelming consensus being that students with IEPs can remain in school until age 21 or 22 and cannot be graduated without parental consent. Several members shared practical strategies including requesting transition assessments, asking for 18-21 programs, refusing to sign IEP documents you disagree with, and working with free advocates through organizations like The ARC to ensure the school meets all goals before graduation. A recurring theme was empowering parents to trust their instincts about their child's readiness, with many describing how an extra year or two focused on life skills, trade training, and social development made a meaningful difference in preparing their children for independence.

A MyAutismTeam Member

I don't know about you guys, but after reading JennyLynn's posts, I am thinking about moving to Ohio.

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December 21, 2012
A MyAutismTeam Member

If your son is on an IEP, you have the right to have them show where they have accomplished everything on that IEP. If they want him to graduate, they aren't supposed to be able to do it without your approval. You have every right in the world to oppose it. They will try to say things like he's 18 and time for him to graduate. Because he's on an IEP, he can stay in the public school system until he is 21 or 22 so that's not a valid argument. If you have to, you can go to your Department of Education and file a statement saying you feel they have NOT finished the IEP and that you want him to continue school until he has done certain things. Find yourself an advocate, The ARC usually offer them free of charge. Usually, when you have one on your side, it's a lot easier to fight the school district. Email me if I can help you at [[email: [[email: [[email: (Email address can only be seen by the question and answer creators)

June 18, 2012 (edited)
A MyAutismTeam Member

Does he need more time? Ask what support they can offer for transition, whether he is graduating or not. He should have a transitional goal and support. How does he feel about graduating now or waiting? If he needs more time the goal should be getting him ready for post-high school.

December 26, 2011
A MyAutismTeam Member

my son is also in the same grade. You stated that you are afraid they may "graduate him". Is this what you meant?

December 22, 2016
A MyAutismTeam Member

My son participated in the graduation ceremony but did not take the diploma. He is still in high school in a transition program taking computer classes.

December 20, 2012

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