What if you do not have a Facebook page?

If you click on "my story" in the menu on the left, or here:
http://www.myautismteam.com/users/OfficerGrandm...

...then you should see a form that lets you upload a profile photo, whether or not you are signing in through Facebook.

And if we've recently deleted our FB profile..?

I figured that might be the case, and if I change my profile photo on face book, the changes are not carried over, or do they take some time. Thanks for the answer.

Thanks, I see new updated picture. If anyone looks for this again make sure you close out your browser after you change your face book profile picture and a new picture will appear. Took a few hours for me.